Mudança - Moving Forward?!

"Ôxe"...como metade de mim falaria...já que 50% de sangue Nordestino eu tenho e não tem como fugir de genética...here we go!

Bem...

Umas das coisas que o ser Humano mais deve se questionar é: "Quero ser feliz...mas o que exatamente isso quer dizer?"

O que ser PLENO significa?

Hoje mesmo conversando com uma amiga MUITO próxima...o "ser plena" dela significa:

- Ter casa própria

- Ter uma negócio próprio que prospere

- Ter filhos

Pequeno detalhe: ela se relaciona com a mesma pessoa faz...deixe me fazer as contas exatas entre namoro e casamento..hummm...faz uns 16 pra 17 anos...e ela tem 34 anos de vida este ano.

E eu me questionei o que seria uma vida plena...

- Será conhecer lugares diversos...culturas diferentes...falar diversas línguas

- Ter um hobbie seria muito legal: volto a desenhar ou descubro algo que eu tenha prazer?

- Aumentar a família sanaria mais alguma coisa....será? Como será ter um filho....

- Fazer uma segunda faculdade! Sempre tive vontade. Mas pense....é uma SEGUNDA chance também. Não poderia escolher de forma aleatória...já que não sou uma "novinha"!

- Rever muitas coisas e ser sincera comigo mesmo....algumas perdas seria uns ganhos? Será que estou numa zona de conforto?

Depois de MUITAS perguntas eu me questiono: Onde tem um psicólogo nessa novo país que eu vivo! Ahahahahhahahh. Será que ele me entenderia?

E no FINAL vem a resposta: Já sei! Vou ser Enóloga e cada final de semana provar um vinho diferente! Ahahahahahah...e enquanto isso faço uma conversa íntima com Freud.

Querido Freud....se um dia me entender.....o mundo terá um fim e ponto final.

Kick-ass...

I am working a lot these 2 months and I Thank God for all.

It's not easy to start working in a job that you don't have experience and it is also difficult to work with customers and talk during 6 to 10 hours per day a language that I am still learning and trying to improve (So, sorry if I am writing wrong..LOL).

I really can say that life is a school!!

It's hard to think that we just have ONE life! Some questions I ask myself when I realise that I have only this life and I lived 1/3 of my life.

This issue really scares me!

Sometimes I try to run away and sometimes I try to forget or I just lie to myself.

If I am happy?

Well...for now I can say that nobody is happy a 100% of the time. We have happy moments in this life...I don't know if we can say that we are or not happy. Maybe we could say "At the moment I am living a kick-ass moment".

New things - overdose

O.K.! I was brave when I moved to another country. Why can I say that I was brave? Because EVERYTHING is new: culture, food, language,....

Besides, I can say that I pushed the RESTART button....Here I didn't have a family or friends. I know that I have to study more English, but when I arrived here....I had a rusty English. 

It was hard at first...but I have learned everyday a lesson. Life is difficult, but we can't give up. Every small step is important and is indeed a great achievement.

Sometimes I freak out....specially during my PMS....like yesterday.

Now I am asking HIM to give me patience and cheerfulness every day...that way I can respond to challenges of life and to deal with difficult people.

Nutricionistas

Seu dia está chegando, não?

Imaginam o nutricionista um ser de outro planeta....um ser que é uma TABELA AMBULANTE de informações nutricionais...além de outras coisas....acham que o nutricionista é esse ET que retratam abaixo...

Ahhh...além das perguntas clássicas:

"Quantas calorias tem 2 caroços de romã?" - exagerei nessa pergunta, mas era para exemplificar que tem gente que pergunta em detalhes minuciosos...

"Jaca tem quais vitaminas?"

"Banana engorda?"

"Você faz uma dieta pra mim"

Vamos lá!

Chegamos ao ponto que eu queria: VOCÊ FAZ UMA DIA PRA MIM?

Meus queridos....o nutricionista estudou PELO MENOS 4 anos da vida dele, fora todos os gastos para você pedir que ele faça de forma RÁPIDA e SEM CUSTO ALGUM uma dieta?

Nutricionista é um profissional SÉRIO...se você quer uma dieta RÁPIDA...existe a internet...onde você achará muitas dietas PORCARIAS e que, no final das contas, pode COMPROMETER sua saúde.

Para o nutricionista "fazer uma dieta" para você....ele necessita de informações e de tempo. A dieta deverá ser individualizada e adequada para VOCÊ!!!

Faça um FAVOR pra tia aqui antes de encher os "pacovás" dos nutricionistas....MARQUE uma consulta com ele e aí pode ENCHÊ-LO de perguntas técnicas e PEDIR A TAL DIETA. Respeite o nutricionista como o profissional que ele é!

Ufaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! Desculpe aí, crianças! Mas é a verdade nua e crua essa!

FELIZ DIA DOS NUTRICIONISTAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Adiantado)

I just can't sleep

Well....I know that I have to wake up early tomorrow, but I am here...with a lot of things in my head...so many thoughts and worries which I am not able to know...and to understand.

For me, I think that the worst problem is when you can not say what is the problem you have.

Something is bothering me and I just don't know what exactly it is.

Do you know when sometimes you have a feeling that everything is just fine and sometimes you just feel that something is wrong...that you have to change or something has to change or you just don't know.

Well...I hate this feeling.

I really have to sleep....it seems easy, uh?

You just have to close your eyes for a few hours and "tchrãm" I open my eyes again and I am a brand new me for a brand new day.

Ahrãm....

I leave with you, folks, some phrases that I am reading....

“Get busy living or get busy dying.” - Stephen King

“May you live every day of your life.”  - Jonathan Swift

“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”  - Marilyn Monroe

“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”  - Mae West

“Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans.” - Allen Saunders

That's enought for now, uh?

Good night...tomorrow will be another day, uh?

Leave your comfort zone!!! Then the Magic Happens....

Some things in life are funny!

We can't predict the future and we don't have 100% control of our life...

Today someone told me:

"Everything is temporary in life....If things are going GOOD - ENJOY it because it won't last forever and if things are going BAD - DON'T WORRY...some time it will end!"

And if EVERYTHING won't last....why not to push ourselves to the limit? Sometimes the solution is doing something that scares you.

What can I say? I've done things and I am doing things that F***** scare me!

Why?

Because If I don't do that...I won't get anywhere....I will stay in my comfort zone FOREVER.

So, LEAVE YOUR COMFORT ZONE!

You'll be fragile....but that's the only way to be stronger!

That's all, Folks!

Nobody said that it would be easy

Wow, baby.

Everything has two sides: the dark side and the light one. Side A and side B!

I am with my family and I dont't want to leave them...

It is surprising how we feel HOMESICK after few months...

So....I ask myself: HOW do I beat the homesickness?

Some people use to say: There is no place like home!

But I heard once: "You will never be completely  at home again, because part of your heart  will always be elsewhere. That is the price you pay for the richness of loving and knowing people in more than one place"